***This post involves numerous mentions of the joys of being sick. Read no further if you are squeamish!***
It was one of those days where being pregnant just adds fuel to a roaring fire. I keep telling myself that I need to shrug it off and move on, but I'm having a hard time with that. So I'm going to write it out in the hopes that it will help me feel better.
Things started out fairly normal with us getting up and having breakfast so we could go to swim lessons. While I was rounding up swimsuits and towels I heard Allie coughing from the kitchen. Then Lily chimed in, "Eew! Moooommmm, Allie threw up!"
Great, not what I wanted to hear. I check and sure enough Allie had been sick. She was fine though and insisted on more cheerios. I figured her cold she had made her cough and gag reflex kicked in. Nothing to worry about right?!
Merrily we got ready and headed to swim lessons. No problems there. Directly after we headed to playgroup that was at a small splash fountain. No problems there other than Lily scraped her arm on the sidewalk, and preceded to show everyone her boo-boo. By this time I was exhausted. Swimming and sun always were me out. So I took the lazy rode and went to McDonald's.
I got home got the kids all settled with their food when I noticed water spilled on the floor. I shook my head in frustration because three times earlier today and yesterday I had cleaned up water in the exact same spot. I thought I was going crazy. I mopped it up, sat down next to Allie just in time to here... cough, couch, gag, gag. This time though it was on my pretty beige carpet because mommy thought it would be fun to have a picnic....without a blanket. Oh, and lets not forget that Allie had eaten a TON of watermelon at playgroup that another mom had brought for the kids. In case you don't know...red watermelon stains beige carpet. GAH!!!
I stripped Allie down sat her on a towel and let her resume eating. She was hungry even after that! I washed her clothes out and sat down to my cold lunch. Russ would have to steam clean the carpet, i just wasn't up to that. Rest assured though I did wipe up most of the....ummmm...gunk. After sitting down Allie promptly turns to me and says, "Need to go potty" I being the wonderful {and lazy} mom that I am tell her to go. See the thing is, whenever the girl gets declothed she feels like she should try and go potty. As of yet, not successful attempts, so I figured she could go by herself.
Happily she runs off and I hear a tremendous SPLASH! In my mind I think, that was too fast to be pee. Sure enough it wasn't. She had messed all over the floor. By this time I also recollected that she had already messed her diaper 3 times this morning. By now I was starting to realize maybe this wasn't just a cold Allie had. I was also eternally grateful to Allie for messing on tile NOT carpet.
Dutifully I cleaned up Allie and the mess. I made sure to get a diaper on her so we didn't have splash accident number 2! By this time I had given up on the idea of eating so I went into the kitchen to throw away my food. I looked down and there was that stinking puddle of water again! Except this time it looked white not clear. I sat there and stared at the water for awhile until I noticed the whit drip marks all down my cabinets. Then I saw the "explosion!" A watermelon that I hadn't quite got around to cutting up had exploded on my counter top! There were holes in it seeping with....ooze. And it was EVERYWHERE!!!!
I turned went to the couch and began to cry. I managed to call Russ and sob out the story. He asked if I was trying to make him want to stay at work. Hmph! "He then gave me the encouraging words of clean up what you can and I'll help with the rest when I get home" After getting off the phone I felt a little bit better, but those stupid pregnancy hormones kept me thinking awful things about the kind of mother/wife I am. On a normal day I could have handled this, on a pregnant day...not so much.
I did my best to clean some of the watermelon up but it stank so bad {apparently it had gone rotten and I hadn't noticed} that I had to stop or get sick myself. By this time Allie was screaming bloody murder about something and I went to check on her. The poor girl had messed her diaper again and a nasty blistery rash was taking over her bum.
I hauled her into the bath where she cried for the first ten minutes of the bath then apparently received some relief. The rest of the day was spent with me trying to rest {remember I was tired from swimming?} between screams from Allie. I finally called the doctors to see if they could give any suggestions to help her out, but they weren't helpful at all.
Russ came home a few hours later and saved my sanity. I don't know what I would do without him. He cleaned the carpets, mopped up some of the watermelon explosion, carried around a screaming Allie, and worked on killing an ant nest{that is a story for another time}. Typing this all out has helped me "shrug off" the bad day and bad feelings.